Private Household Operations Director

Muffetta Household Staffing Agency  ยท  via Backpacker Job Board
๐Ÿ“ Larchmont, New York, United States โฐ Full Time


Private Household Operations Director

Job #: J2136


Position Details: Full Time.

Day: Monday-Friday.

Time: 9 AM-5 PM (Must be flexible).

Compensation: $120,000 - $150,000 per year, Paid via W2 (on the books).

Benefits: Competitive benefits package offered.

Start Time: Immediately

A family is seeking an experienced Home Office Assistant & Household Operations Director to provide support within a structured family office environment.

This is not a traditional office administrative role. Prior experience working in a home environment is required.

The position serves as the central operational coordinator responsible for ensuring the household and family logistics run smoothly, efficiently, and predictably.

The ideal candidate is a high-level Family Office Executive Assistant or Estate Manager professional with strong operational judgment and experience coordinating complex household environments.

This is a long-term opportunity for a professional who enjoys building systems, maintaining operational stability, and supporting a complex household environment.

Core Responsibilities:

Household Operations Oversight:


  • Maintain structured household calendar systems (Cozi and related platforms).

  • Coordinate school, medical, camp, and extracurricular logistics.

  • Ensure seamless transitions across daily routines and schedules.

  • Eliminate last-minute operational disruptions.



Operational Systems & Process Development:

  • Design and document repeatable household workflows.

  • Build continuity systems that remain functional through staff transitions.

  • Reduce operational bottlenecks and single-point-of-failure processes.

  • Maintain structured communication and escalation channels.



Vendor & External Service Oversight:

  • Coordinate and oversee external service providers including:

  • Bill-pay and bookkeeping services.

  • Travel advisors and event support providers.

  • Household maintenance vendors.

  • Postal and mail processing systems.

  • Insurance and payroll providers.



Transportation Infrastructure Coordination:
  • The household operates a structured transportation model using a vetted bench of drivers.


Responsibilities include:

  • Maintaining predictable pickup and route coordination.

  • Ensuring communication between drivers and childcare professionals.

  • Maintaining backup transportation coverage.

  • Identifying and resolving reliability gaps.



Project Leadership:

  • Move initiatives from concept to completion.

  • Maintain accountability across vendors and service providers.

  • Sequence operational steps and track progress.

  • Ensure forward momentum independent of principal bandwidth.



Candidate Profile:

  • We are seeking a high-caliber professional with experience in:

  • Private family office environments.

  • Estate management or complex executive support.

  • Multi-vendor coordination.

  • Operational systems design.

  • Strategic logistics and scheduling.



The ideal candidate demonstrates:

  • Exceptional organizational judgment.

  • Systems thinking and problem-solving ability.

  • Emotional intelligence and discretion.

  • Calm, structured leadership style.

  • Confidence working independently.

  • Ability to coordinate professionals without micromanaging.



Personal Characteristics:

  • Calm, steady temperament.

  • Strong operational thinker.

  • Non-ego driven leadership style.

  • Protective of principal time and attention.

  • Clear and professional communicator.

  • Highly discreet and trustworthy.



Work Environment:
The household values:

  • Clear authority lanes.

  • Mature and direct communication.

  • Structured working environments.

  • Long-term professional alignment.

  • Discretion and confidentiality.